Fish In The Sea

"There are plenty fish in the sea".  This statement is often made with the intention of giving someone hope after a failed relationship or a lost partner.  It is meant to give them hope that there is someone or something out there better than what they just lost.  But this statement often provides a false sense of optimism, and may also contribute to premature feelings of the need to move on.  Yes, there are more options.  Yes, there is someone else out there for you, but before you throw the bait out into the sea take time to decide what you are fishing for.  Remember that not only are there plenty of fish in the sea, but these fish come in many different types and have many different reasons for being.  There are predators who hunt for the weak and vulnerable female to make their prey, and there are others who swim the oceans seeking a companion to spend the rest of their lives with.  If these two extremes were all that existed then finding what you are looking for would be a simple task.  But the task is made complex by the fact that most Men fall somewhere in between. You must be careful that you choose the one that meets your needs and wants.  Know exactly what you are looking for, and don't just fall for the first one that jumps into your net.  Don't settle for less.

There are plenty fish in the sea.  Make sure you choose wisely. 

He Loves Me. He loves me not.

Does he love you?  It's amazing how many women can't even answer this question.  As simple as it may seem.  But a mans love is not always displayed for the world to see.  Throughout our lives we are told that to be emotional, is to be weak.  We are taught by our role models and idols to conceal our feelings at all cost.  We are told that if we reveal our feelings in the open, we will become the prey of those who seek to test our Manhood.  He may love you indeed, but just as he was taught to ride a bike or to throw a ball, someone must also teach him how to love.  He may love you indeed, but he may not know how to love the way that you wish to be loved. 

Push him and he may Flee, but teach him and you may See!